Here's another "Think About It" from Bible study. "How can I discover my spiritual gifts?" Practice, practice, practice. Wait, that's how you get to Carnegie Hall. I would suggest asking God for advice. Another way is to follow the dictum of the '60s: If it feels good, do it. Just make sure it's not a sin. I enjoy writing so maybe that's a gift that I can use in service to God. Also, ask others. Just make sure it is positive criticism they give.
Jesus said "If any man serve me, let him follow me; and where I am, there shall also my servant be: if any man serve me, him will my Father honour" (John 12:26). God will always love us. Even if we don't follow the rules. In that case we aren't likely to receive his gifts, though. Maybe it's selfish of me, but I want both.